an update in pictures

i can't believe i haven't blogged since january 29th! i'm turning into a ginormous slacker. i guess we'll start from february 1st and work our way to march... (don't worry, we haven't done much. we're lazy.)

on february 2nd we had quite the snow storm rip through town, leaving both morgan and me snowed in and unable to go to work (bummer). total, we had about two feet of snow, which was quite impressive to kashmir. he ran, jumped, and ate snow for the majority of the day. that weekend, the two older boys (kaedon and kalen)  came over and played on the huge snow mountain in the church parking lot with uncle morgan and kash. they had such a good time!! of course i couldn't stay and play because i had some shopping to do... hello williamsburg outlet mall!

me sitting on our sidewalk.

party on the mountaintop! kash, morgan, kal & kaed.

we celebrated two birthdays in february. kaedon charles turned 6 and kalen jacob turned 4. it's so hard to believe that they're not babies anymore! kaedon started kindergarten this year and kalen is in his first year of preschool. also a big milestone - kaedon lost his first tooth... or should i say TEETH? he lost his first two teeth in ONE night, and, because i'm a loudmouth (and i often forget he cannot sense sarcasm yet), he demanded $50 from the tooth fairy. the "tooth fairy" was NOT impressed, and promised to corrupt my child like i've corrupted theirs. yikes.

kaed's teeth. he was very unsure of the new feeling in his mouth.

birthday boys with crazy uncle morgan.

gorgeous krue.

oh, and how could i possibly forget this little detail: we officially passed the "half way" point in my pregnancy on valentine's day! and, our gift was an ultrasound to see how the little babe has progressed. it was absolutely amazing. it was hard, but baby mays' gender is still unknown. however, if we had to guess, we'd say BLUE based on the fact that the little sweetheart was in a wrestling stance for much of the ultrasound! :)

baby mays' profile @ 20 weeks.

at night, morgan and i like to sit on the couch and watch the baby try to kick its way out of my belly. it's quite hilarious. sometimes it looks like there is a bit of a dance party taking place in there, and other times it looks like s/he is taking judo chop lessons from jackie chan. regardless, we enjoy watching the little movements and wondering what exactly is going on in there!

little baby feet!

me at 23 weeks. (moo!)

march, thus far, has not been too eventful. we finally chose our color swatches and got the baby's room painted. we went with a neutral grey for the paint and an owl theme for the overall room. we had a custom bedding set made for us on www.etsy.com, which should be ready in the next couple of weeks. also, we officially ordered the baby's furniture set and we should be able to pick it up in the next couple of weeks. we are so excited that it is all coming together. all we need is the baby to make it complete! i will be 24 weeks tomorrow, which means we have about 16 weeks of baby baking left. here's hoping the time flies by!

baby's custom crib set. LOVE!

painted room (and lots of stuff)

piggies!

last weekend, morgan's brother's sow gave birth to 11 little baby piglets. we were so excited (at least i was -- i love little piggies!) so we took our nephews kaedon & kalen out to see them. kaedon was all about it - kalen, not so much. i think he was a little worried to upset the mama pig, so he kept his distance. they are so little and make the cutest little piggy noises.

the boys got a bit of a chuckle when they realized that one of the piglets had taken a poo on uncle morgan. apparently this is the story that their parents heard quite a bit of. ("one of the piggies pooped on morgan and it was yellow!") leave it to the maines to obsess over poop!

we finally decided on a design for the nursery as well as the furniture, which is a HUGE relief. my friend jamie has been helping me with the tedious details -- she is amazing!! she knows how to turn me back into a sane person. little baby mays is quite active, i must say. s/he is all over the place, and kicked me a pretty good one this morning! we are still unable to feel his/her movements from the outside, so daddy still hasn't gotten to be involved. :( should be about 2-3 weeks before daddy will be able to feel him/her. we have our 20-week ultrasound on february 15 which is generally where they determine the sex of the baby, but as we previously mentioned, we are not going to find out. we agreed that this is one of the last surprises left on the planet, so we want to enjoy every second of the surprise. people's reactions to our decision not to find out the sex or to share our names has been pretty shocking! some people are just absolutely appalled and hound us every day, saying, "you'll change your mind!!" trust me, we won't. :) we're very content with our decision, and besides, you'll all know when we do!

-the mays'

weekend endeavors

last weekend we took a trip down south to kentucky so we could have christmas with morgan's sister, martina, her husband, billy, and their daughter, reagan. normally the 9-hour drive isn't all that bad, but when you have to pee every hour it becomes a bit of a nuisance. we left friday morning at 4:30 am and drove through the thickest fog and the hardest downpour of rain to get there. needless to say, when we finally reached our hotel, we were beyond relieved. (especially me, who spent a great deal of the car ride bawling in a state of panic, convinced we were going to die.) we were doing great and then i caught a little bug later that night (new year's eve) and ended up falling asleep around 8:30. i was quite excited to wake up the next morning feeling 100% better. we couldn't wait to see everyone. the rest of morgan's family had driven down there earlier in the week, so the whole mays family was together. it was our first time seeing miss reagan since she learned how to walk - so cute! it's incredible how quickly kids grow when you don't see them every day. she is even saying words, which is so cute to hear her little voice! we spent a great deal of time trying to get some family photo ops taken (thank you jon & laura) but in general, it ended up being simply hilarious. logan & jerome are quite the comedians to say the least. on the way home, we got to stop at an outlet mall in indiana which was AWESOME. we spent a bulk of our time in motherhood maternity scoping out their sales, as well as in baby gap. (which, ps, they have hardly any gender neutral outfits - such a bummer!) although we enjoyed our time in kentucky, we were very happy to be home and in our own beds. weasley missed us terribly. kash didn't seem to mind - he got to spend the whole weekend out at granni's.

this is how you fit 10 people on a couch!

we assumed that this past weekend we would take it easy since we had been on the go so much last weekend. umm...zero. martina, billy, and reagan made the trip to iowa so we headed over to morgan's parent's house to spend time with them. how lucky were we to get two weekends in a row with them? saturday was a long day for us -- i discovered the day before that my chosen cloth diapers for the baby were being discontinued and thought i had a few weeks to purchase them before they were gone. by saturday morning, they had been completely removed from the website and i was in a state of complete & total panic. not to mention we decided to discuss the baby's nursery which ended up in a bit of a disagreement. the extinction of my diapers plus the dying vision of my dream nursery equalled several hours of tears for me. can i just say that the absolute WORST part of pregnancy is the hormones? for. real. it is quite the roller coaster ride and trust me, you have zero control over it! we finally came to a consensus, and just then, we discovered that the crib set we adored only came in black & white. GRRR. we need expresso to match our wood trim! back to square one. (however, i did discover early this morning that my cloth diapers were back on the site! $350 later, we have our complete stock of bumgenius all-in-ones. whew!)

crazily insane mays boys

on an even better note, this last week was when i started to feel little baby mays moving around. i'm only feeling little flutters, but it's enough to make his or her presence known! very, very excited for this, and definitely can't wait for the stronger kicks and movements to start! (that way daddy can be a part of it, too!)

reagan & uncle morgan

-the mays'

adios, christmas! hola, 2011!

the first christmas in our new house is definitely going to be a memorable one. to kick off our celebration, we did an all day bake-a-thon with morgan's family. we made a variety of different desserts and even watched mark use a hand mixer for the first time. jerome won the reward for 'most creative dessert' for his recipe -- snowmen on a stick! he and morgan got a little too creative with the decorating and it was almost scary. (yarmulke-wearing snowmen aren't exactly traditional. but imaginitive nonetheless.)

after baking cookies and a eating nice midwestern dinner, we worked on a puzzle (didn't get very far) and then decided to open up presents. there was wrapping paper everywhere, except for in logan's corner. we made the poor kid wait and open his present last. in his giant box underneath a few blankets was an electric guitar. and after the guitar and amp were plugged in, we had a very confused puppy! we finished our night by watching a christmas story. (well, some of us...the mays' are infamous for their uncanny ability to fall asleep anytime, anywhere. mark, rita, morgan, and jerome were out like a light before randy could show them how the piggies eat.)

on christmas morning around 8:30, morgan and i decided to crawl out of bed. (probably our last christmas where we'll be able to wake up on our own terms!) we went downstairs and opened up all of our christmas presents, including a few gifts for our growing little baby. christmas as a married couple is much different, as well as christmas with two incomes! we may have gone a little overboard this year, but i think it was well-deserved. morgan says his favorite gift was apple tv. my favorite gift was a 12-pack of bumgenius cloth diapers. kash loves his new bed, and weasley goes crazy for his catnip ball. baby mays can't speak for itself, but i'm sure he or she will really love the pale yellow hawkeye onesie (s)he got to come home from the hospital in. :) 

later that day we drove into bettendorf to spend a little time with the maine side and to see my cousin jessica, who flew back from beirut for the holidays. we then made a quick stop at morgan's parent's house to play boggle and watch elf.

we ended our holiday festivities with our family christmas with our dad today. the overall result was mayhem, but that's what happens when you have 3 rowdy boys ages 5 and under in one house! we enjoyed having everyone over, and weren't quite sure what to do with the sound of silence after everyone left. 

so, to fill the void, my world-traveling cousin jessica came over and dropped off a furry little christmas gift named ramses. ramses is jessica's cat who was technically homeless until today. we offered to take ramses for her and give him a home. poor little guy hasn't come out from behind the toilet for the last 2 hours... probably has something to do with the warm welcoming that weasley had to give him. (it wasn't good... my cat is such a territorial jerk.) we hope that ramses will warm up to us soon... and that weasley will warm up to him!

we hope you all had a safe and merry christmas. now onto the new year... what are your resolutions? ours is to clean out our dirty mouths. i'm creating a high-tech swear jar that is going to end up being a savings account for baby mays. there will be a fee for each word.. the dirtier the word, the more costly. SO... watch your mouths while you're in our house or you'll have to pay up!! get it all out of your system before the first of january. :)

-the mays'

lazy weekends

we don't know if it's a good or bad thing that we've been spending so much time lounging around on the couch. of course, i can easily use my pregnancy as an excuse since i've been so exhausted, but we still feel like giant losers spending our weekends in the living room. but what else are we going to do in this crazy midwestern weather?

morgan is finally done taking his week-long trips to chicago and madison for work...hallelujah! i hate being in our house alone and i wake up to every small noise. needless to say, i haven't been getting much sleep lately, and the lack of sleep plus an already weakened immune system has caused me to feel pretty cruddy for the last few days. i miss the days where i'd just pop a few ibuprofen if i had a headache. tylenol shouldn't even be put into the category of a "pain reliever" because it does nothing! that is the one part about pregnancy that i do not like (so far). if you asked morgan, he'd say that his least favorite part about pregnancy is the hormones. (hehe) can't say that i like them either, but poor him does take the brunt of whatever emotion decides to come out. twenty-eight or so weeks left... we can do it!!

kashmir continues to get better, and has recently been dubbed our "miracle puppy." my mom took him to a chiropractor last week and we have been continuing treatments every few days. after yesterday's session, kash was putting a lot more weight on his bad leg - amazing! he has put so much weight on and is acting so much like a normal puppy. we are so happy to have our kash back.

our christmas tree has become much more of a nuisance than i ever could have imagined. weasley likes to steal the ornaments, and kash tends to run underneath of the tree and mess the skirt up. we've been spraying the tree with "keep off" before leaving for work in the morning, but it doesn't seem to phase our pets. we love having the tree up, but quite frankly can't wait to take it down.

as far as my pregnancy goes -- i've been feeling absolutely great. no morning sickness at all, just been pretty tired. i am a little worried, though, because i'm already starting to show! i feel like a circus freak. everything i've read basically says with your first pregnancy you don't really start showing until your second trimester. well... i suppose my second trimester is right around the corner, but i still feel like i'm freakishly large for only being 11 weeks. you be the judge...

the mays'

12/12/10 - 10w7d - HUGE?

growing family

we hope you all had a nice thanksgiving. we only had two to attend this year, which is definitely a record for us. it was great to see our families and share some big news with them...

we're going to have a baby!

the idea of it all still has not even sunk into our heads! we are expecting this little one on or around july 4, which just so happens to be his or her daddy's birthday! we've decided to embellish the surprise, so we are not going to find out the gender, nor are we going to share our names. (and yes, baby mays has already been named!) july will be one big surprise for all of us, and we can't wait to share the big news!

in other news, kash is healing up nice and is just starting to put more weight on his bad leg. he had a run-in with a flu and ended up in the vet for a weekend, but now he's back to good and working on his leg strength. they said it could take up to six months for him to be fully recuperated, although we hope it takes much less time. he's still not able to play with the neighbor dog, his girlfriend bugsy. this is really hard for him to comprehend, and he usually spends his potty breaks whining for her.

this morning we accompanied my brother, jake, and his wife, steph, to their ultrasound to find out the gender of their baby. we are happy to say that we are going to be welcoming ANOTHER maine boy to the family!! he's so active, and not afraid to show off his manhood, if ya know what i mean! he will be here around may 23, just in time for his aunt betsy's birthday!

we spent all day yesterday cleaning our house and gearing it up for christmas. we bought a tree for $79 at walmart and i must say, it was a heck of a buy. it's so big and full, and looks great in our foyer! we decorated the tree with silver and blue ornaments. we have to spray it with "keep off" every morning to keep weasley and kashmir away from it. darn pets.

other than that, just gearing ourselves up for winter and for baby. july may seem like it's a ways away, but we know it will be here all too soon!!

the mays'

lesson learned

so i guess the saying is true that you don't know what you have until it's gone... or almost gone.

my mom picks up our puppy, kashmir, every weekday so that he can get out of his kennel and enjoy some socialization with other animals at the crazy treimer farm. on a normal day, morgan and i leave the house by 7:00 for work, kash waits patiently in his kennel for 'granni' to pick up him, and he leaves our house no later than 10:00. morgan generally picks kash up from doggy daycare in the evening, brings him home, and the pooped-out pup crashes until the morning. (as you can see, it really works out in our favor!) however, last monday (11/1) was a bit of a different story. it started out like normal, but instead of going out to granni's to play, kashmir went out to granni's and got ran over.

i received a panicked phone call around 10:00 from morgan, saying that kash was being taken to the vet and that he got ran over. i began to freak out immediately, to the point where i had to leave work. (it was my second day in the new office and i was crying hysterically - great impression!) i drove as fast (and safely) as i could and met my mom at the vet. there was my poor puppy, sprawled out in a kennel with an IV of morphine. according to the vet, kash had internal bruising which caused his lungs to fill with blood. the vet said it wasn't bad, but he was concerned that kash's heart had possibly been bruised, which meant there was nothing they could to for him. kash also sustained a broken hip and some horrible cuts to his leg. we were told that the next 24 hours were crucial, and that as long as he lived through the night, he should be okay. i returned to work that afternoon (determined to show my new supervisor & coworkers that i'm not irresponsible) and waited to hear any type of news regarding the fait of my six-month-old pup.

about two hours later, i get a call from mary (that's my mom) saying that kash has done a complete 180 and is being sent home. confused, and remembering what he looked like just hours before the phone call, i asked my mom how this could be humanly (or caninely...?) possible. my mom said that kashmir's gums had gone from white to perfectly pink, which was a good indicator that he was on the fast-track to recovery.

so my mom took kashmir back out to her house (this time, inside) and watched him like a hawk until we were able to get off work. poor puppy. he was in so much pain and could hardly stand. he had no control over his right leg due to the break in his hip. we had to take him outside in the freezing cold every couple of hours so he could try to pee and/or poop. it was so sad to watch him try so hard to do something that used to be second nature to him.

he had his hip replaced on wednesday, 11/3, and got some stitches in his leg. (there was a big gouge from the gravel road.) he was able to stand much better after that, and was even walking on it some. by the weekend, kash had come back home with us and was putting more and more weight on his leg. he even got to play with his girlfriend, the neighbor's dog bugsy. (of course, they had to take it easy.)

up until yesterday, kashmir was making great strides in his recovery. unfortunately, yesterday he got knocked over by one of my mom's dogs and fell right on his bad hip. mom says he cried for a little bit. she called the vet and they said to keep him away from the big dogs for a while. we saw him last night and he was more interested in laying around and sleeping than anything else. :(  mom said that he is in a lot of pain today and she has to help him stand up. the vet said that he would be hurting because of his fall, but it's still so depressing to see him like this.

we're hoping he's better and back to himself soon. the house is so lame without him around, unless you're weasley - who thinks that being the "man of the house" is absolutely amazing. damn cat.

the mays'